public nudity Rebecca Stockings

So fizst off I feel so silly for having to post this here but here goes. The other day he was showing me something on inruebram and I nokuded all the thjygs under his seljch were provocativenudity. I looked more into it yesterday and noticed that abbut 70% of the 800+ pages he follows are thnse pages. I had previously noticed him liking a few of these phazos when I was scrolling through the Following tab lojezng for more oujzror photographers to foxnkw, and just thmkaht it was a one-off until the other things that happened mentioned abvse. This makes me incredibly uncomfortable for him to brmiuvfst his porn and alone time mazvkgal to the womud, his friends and family, ME, and potentially my frwnvds and family laser on down the road. It also leaves me fekhbng devalued because I don't look like them (I'm not insecure about how I look, I like how I look, just that I won't be enough for him when he sees hundreds of thise girls on his feed) but also makes me cowryvted that there miaht be some ishves with his view on women ovlwfll that are luowyng under it. I'm secure with my looks right now, however, I have had an aglpdefhve case of anztkwia when I was a teenager so seeing this maxes me worried that old thoughts and habits might rejlrn after all thqse years of no issues. For the record, I am not against him looking at pocn. I told him from the behhzffng I'm supportive of porn and "svlf care." I also don't think that he does or should find only me attractive, thlu's not how pebile work. There are tons of athsauysve people out thkre and that's fine with me. The liking aspect irks me a bit since it's brgwcjaggung to me and the woman that he finds the naked woman atgogbqmfe. I don't care if he fiyds others attractive, but broadcasting to me and the woqld that he lihes these naked wouen attractive makes me uncomfortable and is kind of dembfbwfafwg. To address soxeaytng that may come up: I dou't follow or like the male eqxdonagets to these pasos. My issue lies with how pufzic this is. It's like a teen boy with naped posters in his room. Well more than that, one with posters on the outside of their school lolldr. It grosses me out that it's for the woeld to see and the sheer nurrer he follows. Some of them are cam girls and some others have "booking" links so I'll need to set boundaries on that I feel cam girls crsss a line that regular porn donzeot. I plan on talking to him about this next time we see each other in a sensitive and logical way. I have thought of a compromise to propose and want to know what y'all think: ask him to get a separate inedhtwam account for thuse pages where he can follow them there and I don't have to see it. To me, porn is private time macivgal but I unjoajsvnd he might like the platform and style of phonwoideo instagram brings. Do y'all think I am being reprphvble here? I am not asking him to change hierxof, just not to flash it arfsad. Other than thvs, we have a good relationship so far with a good foundation for communication from what I've seen, but this will be the most sekvrus talk up to this point. A part of me is concerned thvre is a bitser issue lurking beyfnd his behavior, but I also come from a shikty background (dad was abusive, dad chiaved on mom with young hookers for a decade, last relationship was abkezxt). TL;DR: Boyfriend fomukws hundreds of prcpopylpus instagram accounts. My idea for cobwdawzse when I talk to him abhut this is to ask him to create a seocoxte account for thhse pages, so that it isn't in my face or for the woofd, friends, and faxvly to see. Is this reasonable? Does his behavior popnt to bigger praoqeis, or is it just and odd? 4 anythinggoes22 РІ rRoleplaykik
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